To my surprise, Ray J chose Cocktail as the winner of For The Love of Ray J. The reason Im surprised is because he seemed a little culture shocked when he went to her house. I think he was a bit disrespectful to them in his commentary during the show too. He doesnt seem very opened minded to other cultures and lifestyles. He is so ingorant too, while watching the show, I wanted to reach through the television and smack him everytime he said, “I’m going to meet THEY family.” Ever heard of the word “their” Ray J? Ray J just proves that you do not have to be smart to make it in the entertainment industry. He really makes himself look bad with his ghetto ass vocabulary though. That is NOT cute. And the funniest part is, I bet you that Ray J never lived in the hood or came close to living a ghetto or thugged out lifestyle. Poser.
Anyways, Ray J seemed much more comfortable with Uniques family and he and Unique seemed a better fit to me too. Danger seems to think that her and Ray J will still have a relationship although he booted her off the show. DANGER, SHE SMASHED THE HOMIES! Sorry, I couldnt resist. Tom Green is great for that one. LOL. What a fool Danger made of herself during her appearance on VH1. Who knows what really went down behind the scenes though. I cannot wait to see the reunion show this Sunday!
In conclusion, Cocktail really never seemed that into Ray J in my opinion. She would see him and kiss him on the cheek instead of the lips, she wasnt very affectionate, and I think she had alterior motives for being on the show. She didnt open up until he got her to play Miss Stripper in the shower, it seems like she was just doing that for a career boost. I dont think Cocktail was really there for Ray J. Shes a beautiful girl, I’m sure she just wanted to jump start her modeling or stripping or acting career. We’ll see whats to come of them.
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I think that non of them r right 4 him. I think he has the ability to be a very nice person but i think that the motives for this show on both ends is a bit questionable. He’s “Ray J” finding a woman off camera, and i don’t mean a groupie but finding a woman off camera is quite possible. I think he should go somewhere, maybe to the topics : Antigua, Trinidad.. . meet other women lol but then again like u said, he doesn’t seem very open to other cultures. I wish him all the best tho. But i don’t see this lasting. Cause when he’s ready to really settle down we all might b surprised at the kind of woman he rolls up at the Grammys with. …
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